This is a guide on how to control your emotions towards your better-half, friends, office-mates, and all the people around you, especially your "boss" The rules of practicing "Ugaling Langit, Ugaling Kaaya-aya".
1) Ang nauunag magalit ang may karapatang magalit. Pag naunahan ka na ng galit niya, tumahimik ka na lang muna.
2) Walang taong nag-aaway magisa. Pag hindi kayo sumasagot o pumapatol, titigil din ang taong nakikipagaway sa inyo.
3) Ang taong galit "BINGI" if someone is angry, wala raw pinapakinggan, so, don't try to explain and fight back. Hindi ka niya iintindihin dahil wala siyang naririnig kundi sarili niya.
4) Ang taong galit "ABNOY" ayon sa pastor, Biblical daw ito? Because the Lord said when he was crucified "Father, patawarin mo sila dahil hindi nila alam ang kanilang ginagawa" Modern Term of these kind of people are abnoys, so you better not get angry para huwag kang matawag na abnoy.
You should also know and realize that the persons who made your day bad are jewels, because you need them for you to mature. Hangga't andyan sila at kinakainisan mo, ibig sabihin, immature ka pa. God will not take away those people, it's for you to take away your bad feelings towards them. You'll know na mature ka na pag dumating yung time na hindi ka na naiinis sa mga taong ito because you have learned to accept them and to have patience with them.
5) Finally the best part of this is to tell yourself na because of this person "I will grow mature" and that DAHIL SA CONTRIBUTION NIYA SA MATURITY MO, KUKUNIN DIN SYA NI LORD.
"The biggest inhibitor to change lies within ourselves and that nothing gets better until we changed"
1) Ang nauunag magalit ang may karapatang magalit. Pag naunahan ka na ng galit niya, tumahimik ka na lang muna.
2) Walang taong nag-aaway magisa. Pag hindi kayo sumasagot o pumapatol, titigil din ang taong nakikipagaway sa inyo.
3) Ang taong galit "BINGI" if someone is angry, wala raw pinapakinggan, so, don't try to explain and fight back. Hindi ka niya iintindihin dahil wala siyang naririnig kundi sarili niya.
4) Ang taong galit "ABNOY" ayon sa pastor, Biblical daw ito? Because the Lord said when he was crucified "Father, patawarin mo sila dahil hindi nila alam ang kanilang ginagawa" Modern Term of these kind of people are abnoys, so you better not get angry para huwag kang matawag na abnoy.
You should also know and realize that the persons who made your day bad are jewels, because you need them for you to mature. Hangga't andyan sila at kinakainisan mo, ibig sabihin, immature ka pa. God will not take away those people, it's for you to take away your bad feelings towards them. You'll know na mature ka na pag dumating yung time na hindi ka na naiinis sa mga taong ito because you have learned to accept them and to have patience with them.
5) Finally the best part of this is to tell yourself na because of this person "I will grow mature" and that DAHIL SA CONTRIBUTION NIYA SA MATURITY MO, KUKUNIN DIN SYA NI LORD.
"The biggest inhibitor to change lies within ourselves and that nothing gets better until we changed"
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